Every Christian is called to love God with their whole heart, soul, mind, and strength (Mat 22:37). As members of the SOS, we are invited to live radically for Him, whether through marriage or living single for the Lord. This discernment resource is designed to help you explore your vocation and discover how you can best love and serve God with your life.

What if God has been speaking to you all along, but you just needed to tune in? This topic invites you to slow down, quiet your heart, and recognize the many ways God is already reaching out to you—through Scripture, prayer, creation, and even the people around you. As you learn to listen more deeply, you’ll discover how His voice can guide your discernment and transform your relationship with Him.

Have you ever considered that knowing yourself deeply could be the key to discerning your vocation? This topic invites you to reflect on your strengths, weaknesses, and unique qualities, helping you see where you may thrive in life. As you take time for honest self-discovery, you’ll grow in clarity, confidence, and openness to the path God has designed just for you.

What kind of life will allow you to love God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength? In this topic, you’ll reflect on how your vocation is meant to be a concrete expression of love and service to Him. As you explore both marriage and living single for the Lord, you’ll gain insight into your unique calling and consider how your gifts, desires, and life circumstances align with God’s plan for you.

Are you ready to take a step forward in your discernment? This topic helps you reflect on where God may be leading you—toward openness to marriage, a deeper exploration of living single for the Lord, or a time of waiting for greater clarity. Through prayer, reflection, and wise counsel, you’ll gain confidence in making an initial decision, trusting that God will continue to guide you as you move forward.

What if true freedom in discernment comes from fully trusting God’s love for you? As you explore this topic, you’ll dive into what it means to let go of fear, surrender expectations, and open your heart to His plans. Through prayer and reflection, you’ll discover how knowing God deeply and trusting Him completely can lead to clarity, confidence, and a greater sense of purpose.

Could your vocation be more than just a decision, but a personal invitation from God? In this topic, you’ll reflect on how He speaks uniquely to you—through desires, experiences, and the people around you. As you listen for His voice, you’ll grow in confidence to respond with trust and freedom, knowing He is drawing you closer to Himself.

What does it mean to love with a pure heart, whether in marriage or in a life fully given to God? This topic invites you to reflect on how purity is more than just avoiding sin—it’s about learning to love as Christ loves, with integrity, freedom, and generosity. As you explore the call to chastity and self-gift, you’ll discover how embracing purity can deepen your relationships, strengthen your vocation, and draw you closer to God.

Have you considered that where and how you live could shape the way you love and serve God? This topic invites you to reflect on the environment, community, and calling that will help you thrive in your vocation. As you discern your path, you’ll explore how your gifts, desires, and circumstances align with God’s greater plan for you—one that leads to a full and purposeful life in His glory.

What are the next steps in living out your vocation? This topic helps you consider how to practically move toward marriage or living single for the Lord with clarity and confidence. Whether you are opening yourself to dating and courtship or exploring a life fully dedicated to God, you’ll be guided in taking concrete steps with the support of pastoral leaders, community, and prayer. Trust that God will continue to lead you as you embrace His call.